Sunday, March 29, 2020

In these difficult days: March 29

March 29

Beloved,

Our dear friend in Ashland, Pete Twitchell, was famous for his weekly y greeting at the corps: “Happy Sunday.” The sun is shining, and kids are laughing as they ride their bikes past my house, but my heart is so heavy on this Lord’s day. Yes, it is Sunday, Pete, but it’s not very happy as COVID-19 is sweeping across our country, around our world. We’re separated from the people we love in our church, our community and family. We are afraid, and grieving over the loss of life. Some of us are hunkering down, while some of us are more exhausted than at kettle time as we work to meet the needs of the poor in our midst.

And yet, through it all, God is with us. My heart turns to Matt Maher’s words today, as he builds upon the old hymn, I Need Thee, O I Need Thee.

Lord, I come, I confess
Bowing here I find my rest
Without You I fall apart
You're the One that guides my heart

Lord, I need You, oh, I need You
Every hour I need You
My one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You.

Might our hearts turn to the One who will guide our steps and grant us courage for the days ahead.


A Prayer

I share in the prayer of gratitude Lt. Col. Larry Ashcraft posted today and echo his words.

“It has been a brutal few weeks in our country. Everything has seemed dark. One consistent light is the bravery, work ethic and selfless service of the officers, volunteers, employees and soldiers of the PENDEL division (and – my addition) the greater Salvation Army).

My eyes are filled with tears of joy and gratitude as I scroll through the pictures and hear the stories of people stepping into the gap for those most in need. It is moving beyond words”.

A Touch of Grace
While I didn’t catch his daily appearance today, I understand that Governor DeWine of Ohio shared the following with his listeners. From the Malone University in our community.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7SUm-60ejQ&feature=youtu.be&fbclid=IwAR3gwZas6UJxO4ae3M_P00iHDKSG4ytFZ1XK4hzp0kUDDYBvsguftx7_81k



Saturday, March 28, 2020

In these difficult times March 28

Beloved,

Perhaps you got a chance to sleep in a bit this morning, or, like me, you were awake before dawn (not planned). Your day may include being the referee between your children, finishing your sermon for tomorrow, trying to figure out the challenges of livestreaming your sermon for tomorrow, packing more food boxes, or just tackling the pile of laundry that’s not going away.

The concept of Sabbath in the midst of crisis may seem out of reach, especially if we think of Sabbath in its traditional definition of a full day of rest. Yet it is what it is, and we do what we are called to do.

Cleland Boyd McAffee penned these words

There is a place of quiet rest,
near to the heart of God,
a place where sin cannot molest,
near to the heart of God.
Refrain:
O Jesus, blest Redeemer,
sent from the heart of God,
hold us, who wait before thee,
near to the heart of God.
2 There is a place of comfort sweet,
near to the heart of God,
a place where we our Savior meet,
near to the heart of God. [Refrain]
3 There is a place of full release,
near to the heart of God,
a place where all is joy and peace,
near to the heart of God. [Refrain]

For today, I am praying for quiet rest, comfort sweet, and full release in the form of Sabbath moments, when we slow down, breathe deeply, and notice the presence of God in the midst of it all. Perhaps one of the verbs on Steve Macchia’s list of 19 ways to care for your soul may give you that moment of Sabbath rest. I realize that many of us are not staying at home, but this may be helpful to share with our people – and the concepts are transferable even to those who are ministering outside the home in these days.

Soul Care

Steve Macchia shares 19 Ways to Care-for-your-Soul…during Stay-at-Home COVID-19. He writes:

During these challenging stay-at-home days, let me encourage you to cultivate your friendship with God, deepen your friendship with the community of God, and consider ways to serve others in the name of our Triune God, our loving Father, gracious Savior, and empowering Holy Spirit. As we all practice physical distancing and collectively fight the pandemic, it’s important that we care for our own soul and the souls of others within our reach, in both new and ancient ways:
1. Pray – now more than ever, we need to be in our prayer closets entrusting our hearts and lives and concerns into the loving hands of our faithful God.
2. Walk – sheltering inside days on end will contribute to sadness, boredom, fretting, fearing, and obsessing…take a daily walk and get some fresh air.
3. Rest – pay attention to your body and get much needed rest; perhaps even consider a daily nap to keep your heart, mind, body, and spirit fresh.
4. Play – maybe it’s time to get out those puzzles, board or card games, and engage with a loved one around something less weighty and more relaxing.
5. Write – write a note, craft a poem, start or restart your journal, or simply put words down on paper that describe the current state of your soul.
6. Read – starting with the Bible, Christian materials, and perhaps a good novel, or a self-help book, read slowly, purposefully, restfully, meditatively.
7. Create – contemplative creative play is worth practicing, bringing to life that “other” side of your productivity: color, paint, mold clay, take photos.
8. Cook – instead of eating instant foods made by manufacturers, pull out a fun, easy, or even a more complex recipe and enjoy a good meal or treat.
9. Call – in this digital age it’s tempting to think we can stay in touch with friends and loved ones only one way; pick up the phone and call instead.
10. Serve – guaranteed there are neighbors around you in need of an act of kindness and grace; ask the Lord to lead you to do something simple for another.
11. Forgive – in the busy fray of life we often ignore our anger, frustration, and conflict with others; ask the Lord if it might be time to forgive and move on.
12. Laugh – we all need some good news to counter all the sad news; give yourself permission to be lighthearted, knowing that laughter is good for the soul.
13. Notice – with open space and less responsibilities (unless you’re on the front lines of medical care, etc.) observe springtime popping all around you.
14. Hope – in times of trouble, hardship, suffering, and sadness, look in God’s Word for words of hope and comfort that will keep you moving forward.
15. Declutter – take it one room or one drawer or one closet or one file at a time and purpose to simplify, clear out, and/or dust off what’s been ignored.
16. Slow – choose a different pace for your days and watch how your world slows down with you; linger over tasks, lessen the load, and live more fully.
17. Thank – lean fully into gratitude, for it will heal and strengthen you like few other attitudes; as you practice thankfulness your heart will swell with joy.
18. Listen – as tempting as it may be to focus on yourself, practice the fine art of listening – to God and to others, without competing or correcting them.
19. Love – the most important way to care for your soul is to love God, and then love your neighbor as yourself; love will empower us through this season.

In Benediction
When someone is going through a storm, your silent presence is more powerful than a million empty words. – Mahatma Gandhi

From the Voice translation, Philippians 4:5-9:

“Keep your gentle nature so that all people will know what it looks like to walk in His footsteps. The Lord is ever present with us. Don’t be anxious about things; instead, pray. Pray about everything. He longs to hear your requests, so talk to God about your needs and be thankful for what has come. And know that the peace of God ( a peace that is beyond any and all of our human understanding) will stand watch over your hearts and minds in Jesus, the Anointed One. Finally, brothers and sisters, fill your minds with beauty and truth. Meditate on whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is good, whatever is virtuous and praiseworthy. Keep to the script: whatever you learned and received and heard and saw in me—do it—and the God of peace will walk with you.”

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

We Can Do This

I generally believe I can get through just about anything as long as the end is in sight (as in kidney stones and childbirth), but this Coronavirus-inspired uncertainty is getting tough to handle. While Jesus is still scheduled to burst forth from the tomb on Easter, it’s looking like the doctors and scientists aren’t going release us for the day’s celebration. As one of my new heroes, Dr. Anthony Fauci, said recently, “You can look at a date, but you’ve got to be very flexible – on a literally day-by-day and week-by-week basis.” 

So how are you feeling? In the film, “It’s a Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood,” Mr. Rogers explains: “We are trying to get the world positive ways of dealing with our feelings.” One way is to use a “mad – glad – sad – scared” approach. It’s a mnemonic, a pattern of words that helps us remember something. Let me channel Mr. Rogers a bit today to check in with you.

Anybody mad? Maybe you’re mad because you can’t go to work, or because you’re an essential worker while your spouse sits at home eating bon-bons as the kids tear up the house. Your wedding had to be postponed or you eloped. You lost money in the stock market. No senior prom, senior prank, or even graduation. Your basketball team was undefeated, and then the season was over on the brink of the play-offs (sorry, Ashland Eagles). You were going to the happiest place on earth and now you’re spending your magical spring break on quarantine in Ohio. Lots of reasons to be angry in these days of broken dreams.

How about glad? Remember the glad game from the Pollyanna movie? I you-tubed it (a new verb) and watched a miserable Aunt Polly trying to make Pollyanna just as miserable. Fighting hard against that sense of despair, Pollyanna tells of the glad game. She learned it when she wished for a doll and all that came in the missionary barrel was a pair of crutches. Her wise father taught her to be glad – glad that she didn’t need the crutches. 

I get it. It does help our mental health to look for the “glad” in our day, to reach for optimism. For many of us, our time is more flexible these days. We’re sharing a learning experience with our children, even though it may not be going all that well. Daffodils are blooming, and people seem friendlier even as we keep our social distance. As one friend reported, “At least I didn’t vomit today.” We can find snippets of glad, even in the worst situations.

We’re surely sad as well. Too many people are dying alone. As of Wednesday, the global death toll was over 20,000. That’s a lot of families in mourning. While less grievous, I’m sad being separated from the grandkids. Waving through the window as I drop off supper or clutching the phone as the sweet Emma Belle attempts to grab my face  – my heart weeps for these everyday pleasures that we can’t have just now. 

The fourth emotion is less talked about (at least out loud), but it’s here all the same. We are scared. Scared someone we love could die. Scared we could die. Scared we won’t be able to pick up the pieces financially when we finally get back to work, if there’s any work to go back to. Scared we could get evicted or face foreclosure. Scared that if we do get sick, we won’t be able to pay the hospital bill. Children and adults alike are afraid of the unknown, and there’s a lot of unknown in March 2020.

So how do we respond? We recognize and honor our feelings. We find positive ways to embrace them, while seeking peace, joy, comfort and courage. We cut ourselves – and each other – some slack. We ask for help. We get outside each day. And we discover new heroes, like Dr. Amy Acton, the director of Ohio’s Department of Health, as she shares her courage, “I am not afraid, I am determined,” her hope, “I do see us on the other side,” and her heartfelt plea: “Please help us.” We can do this.

Thursday, March 26, 2020

In these difficult times March 26


Sorry I missed checking in yesterday. Slacker! Nope, not going to accept that name in these days of uncertainty. We must find ways to pace ourselves for the long haul. I love the way Eugene Peterson brings scripture to life in The Message, and I needed to be reminded of the words of Jesus today.

Scripture

From Matthew 11: Jesus resumed talking to the people, but now tenderly . . . 28-30 “Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.”

Resources


Grief – we’re feeling it now, says Scott Berinato. Yet he wonders, “If we can name it, perhaps we can manage it.”

https://hbr.org/2020/03/that-discomfort-youre-feeling-is-grief?fbclid=IwAR3wR5wS2Hs2wPbPBgXPq6OT6Rvj-3Wey1K67EMzgZBV_LMH89HEtc-5UdM


It’s opening day for baseball. Here’s the commissioner’s letter. 

https://www.mlb.com/news/commissioner-manfred-letter-to-fans?fbclid=IwAR1W8TImYzuse0qnKADm93wS7c_MdyVSgUK_-tfusMYi_lGKkG-G8WPiSKg

Tribe fans – print out a few coloring pages for your mental health – or for your kids at 


A Smile for Today

https://www.npr.org/sections/coronavirus-live-updates/2020/03/24/821041006/virtual-love-sweet-love-from-quarantined-berklee-college-of-music-students?utm_term=nprnews&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=npr&fbclid=IwAR1UBucHDp1xxauolCVjnuueGyBB-ryeJgQ4lII7hCsmEVv60TtaLvNjKVU&fbclid=IwAR2Q-6Dpsr8Z_I8l9IAhjwcPkupsiTFtdGE9AvEORmbBKir5Pmgyo2Ktppo

A Hymn for All of Us

How firm a foundation, you saints of the Lord,
is laid for your faith in his excellent Word!
What more can he say than to you he has said,
to you who for refuge to Jesus have fled?
2 "Fear not, I am with you, O be not dismayed;
for I am your God, and will still give you aid;
I'll strengthen you, help you, and cause you to stand,
upheld by my righteous, omnipotent hand.
3 "When through the deep waters I call you to go,
the rivers of sorrow shall not overflow;
for I will be with you, your troubles to bless,
and sanctify to you your deepest distress.
4 "When through fiery trials your pathway shall lie,
my grace, all-sufficient, shall be your supply;
the flame shall not hurt you; I only design
your dross to consume and your gold to refine.
5 "The soul that on Jesus has leaned for repose,
I will not, I will not desert to his foes;
that soul, though all hell should endeavor to shake,
I'll never, no never, no never forsake."
Praying for you today – for “grace that blows all fears away.” (Hillsong)



Tuesday, March 24, 2020

In These Difficult Times March 24


March 24, 2020


 Kate Bowler, a Duke University professor who has faced a severe health challenge for a number of years, writes: “Historically, as suffering mounts, the self-serving always say, look, do the math. Some people are more valuable than others. 
God’s math is clear. God is on the side of the losing team. God, give us the courage to be found there, among the weak, where we belong.”

Checking in with Salvation Army staff and officers today, that’s where I found them, “where we belong.” Grateful for the faithfulness of our brothers and sisters, and praying continued strength and wisdom for the days ahead.

A Prayer
My friend Amy shares this prayer which was read at her wedding:
Keep us, Oh God, from pettiness; let us be large in thought, in word, in deed. 
Let us be done with fault-finding and leave off self-seeking. 
May we put away all pretense and meet each other, face to face, 
without self-pity and without prejudice.
May we never be hasty in judgement and always generous.
Let us take time for all things; make us to grow calm, serene, gentle. 
Teach us to put in action our better impulses - straight forward and unafraid. 
Grant that we may realize it is the little things of life that create difficulties; that in the big things of life we are as one. 
Oh, Lord, let us not forget to be kind. - 
Mary, Queen of Scots

Resources
 One for the kids – Josh Grad (the voice of Olaf from Frozen) reads bedtime stories
https://twitter.com/GMA/status/1239684116334796800?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1239686262786670592&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fblog.theliteracysite.greatergood.com%2Fjosh-gad-reading-bedtime-stories-coronavirus%2F

A Touch of Whimsy
 The National Cowboy Museum put their head of security in charge of their Twitter account while the museum is closed. If my dad was still alive, this is what his Twitter would look like!

https://www.boredpanda.com/national-cowboy-museum-head-of-security-twitter/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=social&utm_content=stickybar&fbclid=IwAR1EDH0AQeXXfCkwjyssK8aSVqKxY6WqWKUbNhKfYebK9Xhk5dWsNaTK7Wk

Kate Bowler shares a smile with us as well: 
My favorite antidote to fear is absurdity. What ridiculous thing brought you joy today? My son has been wearing an eye patch for four days running. His vision is perfect. (for now). 


Saturday, March 21, 2020

in These Difficult Times March 21

March 21, 2020

Beloved,

We greet you today with verses from Psalm 20, the New Living Translation

Psalm 20
For the choir director: A psalm of David.
In times of trouble, may the Lord answer your cry.    May the name of the God of Jacob keep you safe from all harm.May he send you help from his sanctuary    and strengthen you from Jerusalem. May he remember all your gifts    and look favorably on your burnt offerings. 

Interlude

May he grant your heart’s desires    and make all your plans succeed.May we shout for joy when we hear of your victory    and raise a victory banner in the name of our God.
May the Lord answer all your prayers.

In reading scripture, we often ask for a word to provide direction to us. We sing, “open the eyes of our heart, Lord,” or pray that the Lord would open our eyes, ears, and minds to what we need to hold onto for today. In Psalm 20, my word is the one tucked inside the Psalmist’s  poem, the word “interlude.” Defined as an intervening or interruptive period, space or event, it can also be described as music between other parts of a worship service. As a child in the Presbyterian Church, it was typically the Gloria Patri: “Glory be to the Father, and to the Son and to the Holy Ghost. As is was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be, world without end, Amen, Amen.”

Can today possibly be an interlude for you? Is there a time when you can pause, to breathe deeply, walk by the water, nap, hold your children close, pray without being interrupted? Praying for an interlude for you, one that gives you the promise of Ralph Carmichael’s song from the late 60s: “There is a quiet place, far from the rapid pace, where God can soothe my troubled mind.” 

Down in the River to Pray

https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutu.be%2FBumCkswUUDA%3Ffbclid%3DIwAR0Hsp-jmOsZEofO4T3itm9MLaVxUzMrATZfBSCglXPhxgYCQ-nTrjWSb_M&h=AT3r6YUiIDjV3pWIo5gtIRTtSVlwlBbWh5NLMMCTpOfG_vetAPq7Bn3CjtUi1HJw14Qsg9CKIu7cM3wgS1-eGLiCtwJD71conumBYJWjRcaSguKCL3ZGg_WRIwQnfjrxmShRNxMKCfcJmZ7fALesQg

Resources

I’ve found the Sojourners daily e-mail to be of encouragement, with its gift of scripture, quotation and prayer. Sign up at https://sojo.net/daily-wisdom

While the Search Institute is best known for its 40 Developmental Assets, they posted a helpful article this week about families working from home. 


And one for the kids. On-line dance class.
https://www.risingstarsnj.com/index.php/classes/free-online-classes

A Bit of Whimsy for Today

Lin-Manuel Miranda and Andrew Lloyd Weber

https://twitter.com/Lin_Manuel/status/1240838352015949830

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The Act of Remembering

Keith McLaughlin speaks to the act of remembering: 

Over the past several months, my wife Michelle and I have met with individuals searching for an awareness of God in their lives. As we have ministered with those in distress, there is a phrase that we have returned to time and time again, “remember in the darkness what you have seen in the light.” The act of remembering can be holy as we recall the character and work of the Lord in our ancestry and in our lives.  

When we remind ourselves of God’s presence in our celebrations and struggles of the past, we can gain courage for today and all that is happening in our world. We can also be assured that God is alive in active in our present circumstances as we reflect on His presence in the past.

 “I will remember the deeds of the Lord; yes, I will remember your miracles of long ago.” Psalm 77:11

Grace and peace be yours in abundance.


In These Difficult Times: March 20

March 20, 2020

Beloved,

Beginning today with words from I Peter 1, with modification (The Voice).*

To God’s chosen people living as aliens scattered  in Akron, Steubenville, Toledo, Ashland and Clevelandthroughout Ohio and beyondI am sending this letter to those who have been selected and destined by God the Father and made holy by God the Spirit that you may be obedient to Jesus the Anointed and purified by the sprinkling of His blood. May grace and peace beyond all reckoning be yours.

*words in italics are added by myself or as italicized by The Voice translation.

It’s another less-than-sunny morning in Ohio. Kids have been home for a week or more. Questions are piling up much higher than answers. What can we do? What is our capacity? How long will this last? Will we get sick? What do we tell our kids? What do we do when we don’t know what to do?

In The Salvation Army, the answer seems simple. Even though we prepare budgets, measure outcomes, and create long-range plans, in times of crisis, we pray and we serve. We find people in need and we reach out in the name of Jesus. How grateful we are for that heritage.

Resources
Ashland friends at Park Street Brethren Church joined in worship and prayer last night and generously share it at this link. Select the 3-19-20 broadcast. Skip the long intro of dead air – it will start about 15 minutes in – we’re all learning a lot about technology these days.


Doug Clay, the general superintendent of the Assemblies of God provides some wise guidance on pastoral self-care. 


Art activities for the kiddos – and maybe the adults too.

For a smile
My friend Martha: Pulled a pint of homemade tomato sauce out of the freezer. 
Now I have to make something with rhubarb!
#LabelsAreImportant

And my neighbor Colleen just posted: Just when I think the world can’t get any more unpredictable- my parents join Facebook. 

From the Frontlines
We echo words from Captain Kelsie Eggers Moreno that you may want to share:

Good morning Salvation Army friends, corps officers and staff, and all those who will wake up today, get dressed, and head out to serve - good morning from the frontlines! Good morning to the frontlines! Just a reminder that you are doing good work, and I am praying for all of us who are not able to stay home. We are called to serve, so serve we shall, as safely as possible. God’s blessings on you today and always!

From the Word

“In the roar of Your waterfalls, ancient depths surge, calling out to the deep. All Your waves break over me; am I drowning? Yet in the light of day, the Eternal shows me His love. When night settles in and all is dark, He keeps me company— His soothing song, a prayerful melody to the True God of my life.”
Psalm 42:7-8 (VOICE)

Grace and peace be yours in abundance,

JoAnn and Larry


In These Difficult Times - March 18

March 18, 2020

Beloved,

Charita Goshay, a long-time Canton Repository columnist, writes this morning of the death of a childhood friend who spent many years ministering in soup kitchens and prisons. She understands the challenge of these days:

“The irony of our being asked to keep our distance from one another these days is that it underscores how much we need one another. Some people have spent much of their lives in ‘socialized distance.’ You see them every day, wandering the streets, pushing all their worldly goods in a shopping care. . . The tragedy of what’s happening now is that it deepens our fear of those in most need of help . . .” 

She concluded: “[my friend] laid out a lighted path for others to find their way back to life.”

Near our front door, we have four small solar lights that are supposed to soak in the sun as it shines and subsequently provide light in the darkness. Due to my notorious lack of tech and/or mechanical ability, the lights have been quite the failure. I wonder if they simply have a pull-tab that needs to be removed? Charita’s words challenge me to do what I can today to lay out that lighted path, but also to remove whatever is keeping the light of Christ from shining. Praying the words of Richard Slater this morning: “Holy Spirit, come O come . . . all that hinders shall be thrown aside . . .”

Resources

Here is a link to child care information in Ohio.


Many of our friends depend on AA meetings. Here is an option if those are cancelled.
Onlinegroupaa.org

The Ashland Kroc Center provides us with this reminder for today: 
We have an extraordinary opportunity to be a small community of love and care for our neighbors (including our families and one another) during this time.

And in benediction, an ancient Celtic blessing
Deep peace of the running waves to you
Deep peace of the flowing air to you
Deep peace of the smiling stars to you
Deep peace of the quiet earth to you
Deep peace of the watching shepherds to you
Deep peace of the Son of peace to you.